Chapter 4: Overcoming Barriers to Connecting with Teenagers
Sep 28, 2023 · 2 mins read
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It’s in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped- Tony Robbins.Teens seek independence while parents retain responsibility for safety. Transition causes role changes and limit testing instigating friction. Cultivate self-awareness to notice triggers before reacting.
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Regulate emotions and respond thoughtfully, not reflexively. Notice judgmental thoughts fuelling anger and disconnection. Pause after triggers to access reason over reactivity. Understand developmental context from teen's perspective.
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Validate genuine emotions while setting limits. Address behaviours, not attack character during disputes. Solve issues cooperatively rather than escalating conflicts. Mindfulness aids present-moment awareness. Listen deeply to understand without presumptions.
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Note thoughts and feelings mindfully without fixation. Delay knee-jerk reactions for consideration. Access compassion over depletion reactions. Reconnect from care instead of anger when triggered. Worrisome exploration sparks tremendous worry in parents.
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However, reacting fearfully often backfires terribly. Respond calmly instead to address concerns constructively. Disrespect triggers anger but lecturing rarely persuades. Remain measured and give reflection space. Express hurt feelings without attacking character.
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Poor outcomes convey heavy disappointment predictably. However, browbeating demoralizes without solution. Constant problem-solving disrupts resilience building. Resist fixating and provide safe venting space. Uncontrolled expression strains parent-child bond.
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Inner turmoil exposure shapes reactive patterns. Self-reflection aids trigger recognition and management. With work, respond to teens emotionally wisely. Mindfulness cultivates present awareness open-heartedly. Noticing unhelpful thoughts creates opportunity.
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Identify reactions skilfully rather than discharge harshly. Extend compassion replacing harshness with care. Build mindfulness gradually through daily living. Our guidance anchors in emotional intelligence.
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