Becoming a High Value Man

Over 60% of Western men don't have a girlfriend, and over 50% of marriages end up in divorce.

How can you avoid being one of these statistics?

First of all, you must understand that men are the "responsible sex."

I don't mean this in terms of the risks they take and how they generally behave, but more in terms of frame and presence. 

As Jerr says: "A man must bear the responsibility of all things"

Instead of bearing the responsibility for acquiring a girlfriend or maintaining a marriage, these men "shrug frame" and ultimately become the cause of these statistics.

To change this, one must become a High Value Man.

There are 6 dimensions to this.

They are:

1. Social

You must develop status in some area of life. Be it your work, your business, your profile, your vocation or otherwise. Authority makes you magnetic & attractive. 

Your presence must have an air of authority, and to cultivate this, you must be the best at what you do

2. Financial

You must be able to provide. That is a man’s duty. Your financial status will often give you social status, bc it requires you to become a better version of yourself.

But do not fall for thinking that just bc you have some money, the other factors don’t matter.

3. Physical

You must be able to protect that which you love. Women crave safety and certainty. A man with physical strength implies they can provide this. 

Once again it is important you have this AND the others. There’s enough broke meatheads and scrawny rich people. High Valu

4. Emotional

You must have self control. Men are rational, women are emotional. In order for us to be free and emotional, the man must bear frame and have the self control of Samurai.

This often means you must cultivate coldness distance & insensitivity, especially in a world w

5. Intellectual

You must be smart, you must be cunning, you must know how to solve problems. Women are designed to support, but we are also hormonally cyclical. We even create problems just for fun!

As a man, your rational frame combined with intelligence gives you a super pow

6. Spiritual

Life is like a dance. There is always a lead, otherwise it’s a mess.

In life, you must be the leader, and it must come from a place of faith in oneself and something greater.

We live in a world of excessive equality. Hierarchies, that are supposed to hold things

If you work on these 6 areas, you will naturally attract women to you. 

Your goal is not to “get the girl”, but to become the Highest Value Man you can be - across all dimensions.

The side benefit is that you will not become one of the divorcee or incel statistics.