3 Dark Truths of Being A Digital Creator No One Talks About

3 dark truths of being a digital creator that no one talks about (lessons from eight years of writing online) 🧵👇

#1  Passion doesn’t last

When you derive pleasure & money from the same thing, your life becomes one-dimensional.

This dries out your passion for the job.

So even if you’ve turned your passion into a profession, don’t rely on *love* alone.

Instead, treat it like a 9-to-5.

Follow these steps:

• Have self-imposed deadlines.

• Create a system to get things done.

• Strike a balance between *fun* and *work*.

• Build a habit, so you don’t rely on *love.*

No matter how much you love your job, only discipline will help you grow.

##2   The hate doesn’t stop coming

No matter how value-packed your work is, some people will still point out your physical flaws.

You might get:

• rape/death threats,

• unsolicited d*ck pics, and

• physical trolls.

This might discourage you from creating online.

But if you let the hate suppress your voice, you’re doing injustice to the people whose lives can be impacted by your content.

Growing a thick skin is hard, but you can’t let the online hate affect you.

It’s also the most essential thing you need to do as a creator.

Learn about dealing with haters here:

#3  The struggle for balance is real

This is the dilemma every creator faces:

1. When will you enjoy life if you only work?

2. How will you upskill yourself if you go on vacation? 🤷‍♀️

I wish there was a *perfect* solution. Sadly, there isn’t.

Here’s what worked for me:

• take things one day at a time, and

• follow your heart:

 - when you work, give itin your 100%, and 

 - when you desire a break, take time off to nurture your creativity.

There isn’t any *real* balance.

But if you get things done on time without burning out, it’s a win 😊

3 dark truths of being a digital creator no one talks about. TL;DR:

#1  Passion doesn’t last. Discipline does.

#2  Online hate is inevitable. Don’t let it affect you.

#3  Work-life balance is hard, but you have to find a way.