Soul-mate: Are they real?

Soulmate- the person destiny has chosen for us, our missing piece, a connection of minds and an unconditional, effortless, never ending love.

It is said that there is one beautiful feeling in this world, feeling which we feel closest to happiness, and that is - Romantic Love, especially when it is reciprocated.It is the source of many intense and conflict emotions - that're unlikely to keep us happy.

But the problem arises when The Romantic Love turns into Un-reciprocated Love, or Betrayal, or simply expires.

And when any of this thing happen, the results are painful. We may experience "Broken Heart Syndrome" or "Takotsubo Cardiomyopathy" as it is known in Medicine, which affects the muscles of heart and can be life threatening.

It is believed that the concept of Romantic Love was invented in Middle Ages, before that either it wasn't prominent or it wasn't celebrated as today, in movies or songs.

And once the concept was invented, there was no going back. And hence started the complications. Although, Love is not a bad concept but the expectations out of it are! The expectations of finding your "Soulmate" or "The One" is Nincompoop and Obtuse.

The Romantic Idea of The One is beautiful but it is also wrong, unless it is understood as someone who has become our Soulmate. Yes! Soulmate-is not a person who is born for us, he or she is the one who have become our Soulmate With Us.

A soulmate is not a single and unique person we must find to be in love,or who will be perfect for us. A soulmate is the person who will become one, with his their love and devotion and hardwork in the relationship. It is not a predestined position, but a well earned status.

Love is considerably less specific than what romantic songs may suggest. The soulmate myth promises that amidst the dizzying and often confusing landscape of dating apps there is one match out there that will make sense of it all –Brudley Onishi an associate professor at Skidmore

Love is not something what music defines it as. Bearing this in mind will help us when our love is unreciprocated or betrayed. He or she wasn't really our soulmate (they didn't earn the title), and others better qualified to eventually become our soulmate are out there, waiting.